What is Friendship???

Friendship is an in-depth reLationship. Friendship is comfortabLe and reLaxed. Friendship requires meeting the needs of both friends.

Never forget that friends reLate. ReLating is the basis of frienship 

Maintenance of friendships is cruicaL… 

Friendships can not be negLected. One-on-one contact is a prerequisite of friendships. Friends must be fLexibLe. ConfLict must be resoLved for friendship to continue.

Building to friendship from casuaL friend…

Building friendships take times. friendship require seLf-discLosure so any friendship has risk, taLking and Listening buiLds friendship. Friendship require equaLity and LoyaLity from friends.

Toxic Friend – Toxic Friendships

Entering into a friendship opens the door for hurt and harm, a harmful friend or a toxic friendship can be one of Life’s hardest reLationships tribuLations to forgive and forget. Toxic friends often come back to haunt you for a Long time.

There are much types  of toxic  friends

The User as a Toxic Friend: 

This person onLy has friends as Long asa he/she can use them for some purpose or goal of his/her own. This person could be the most harmful of toxic friends.

The Betrayer as a Toxic Friend:

Nothing hurts more than a friend who betrays you. The betrayer is truLy a toxic friend.

The ControL Freak as a Toxic Friend :

The Control freak is a friend as Long as She/he is in controL. The controL freak often seems to be heLping you. Refuse that heLp or break that controL and find out what toxic friendship really means.

The Judge as a Toxic Friend:

Ever judgmentaL, ever criticaL, this friend can erode your seLf-esteem. The judge is a fauLt finder. You can rareLy do anything completeLy right whit this toxic Friend.

The Promise Breaker as a Toxic Friend:

This person rareLy does what he says  he wiLL do. If yao have a date, your toxic friend is often a no-show. A generaL Lack of dependabiLity make this person a toxic friend.

The Gossip as a Toxic Friend: 

The gossip will eventuaLLy betray your trust and become a toxic friend. Gossips are easy to spot so beware your friendships with them.

The Self-Centered Person as a Toxic Friend: 

Self-centered people can’t think of you as they are too busy thinking of themseL. They make a toxic friend

Best Friends: How to Grow a Friend “A TweLve-Step Program”

1. People EquaL Friends..

There is a certain chemistry with friends just as in a Love reLationships. Therefore, contact with other peopLe is the forst buiLding bLock to grow a friend. Friends can’t grow in a vacuum. Best friends take time

2. TalKing Is AssentiaL Among Friends..

Talking between friends requires reciprocit. In a mutuaLLy satisfying friendship, both friends taLk and both friends Listen. Friends taLk appropriateLy to each othet.

3. Friends AckonowLedge Friends..

Friends acknowLedge each other when taLking. Many confLicts in your personaL reLationships can be avoidedif you wiLL take the time to acknowLedge other’s feeLings and points of view..

4. Friends Listen To Friends..

Listening to friends in an important step in buiLding a cLoser friendship. We often take Listening for granted, never realizing what it means to reaLLy Listen to a friend..

5. Friends Attend To Friends..

Friends focus during conversations. Friends pay attention in conversation. It means that your ears, your eyes, your body and your feeLings are aLL focused on that person at the time..

6. Friends Show Empathy With Friends..

Empathy is identifying with your friend’s feeLings and seeing Life through your friend’s eyes. Confidences are freeLy given when they are received with empathy among friends..

7. Friends Touch Friends..

Touching is a warm form of communication between friends. When you see best friends communicating, you wiLL notice friends “Listen with their eyes,”stand cLose together, and touch comfortabLy…

8. Friends Praise Friends…

Affirmation is a powerfuLL tooL for growing a friend. Genuine praise can affect your friend’s Lives. Be LiberaL with praise for aLL of your friends, incLuding your casuaL ones..

9. Friends Are LoyaL and TrustWorthy..

Trust and LoyaLty gohani-in-hand for friends. Friends can trust you with their secrets, both Large and smaLL, because good friends never break a confidence. Good friends are forever LoyaL…

10. Friends are Equal…

Friends are on a seesaw. In a heaLthy reLationship, friends are equals. Not 50/50 every time, of course, but with a true, Lasting friendship it aLways evens out in the end…

11. Friends ReveaL Their FeeLings…

We feel cLosets to our Friends when we are suffering together, when we feel Like our friend needs us, or when we feel a friends has shared something of great importance with us..

12. Friends Do Not Mind Read…

The Person who thinks, “If you really Liked me, you couLd read my mind” can not have aduLt friendship. No Friend can read your mind. And you can not read your friend’s mind…